June 29, 2022 3 min read
You’ve decided to spend forever together Congratulations!
Whether you're committing to each other after a long time of casual dating or you’ve just swept each other off your feet, committing to each other is a big step, but don’t worry you can learn how to become a better listener and how to turn to your partner!
The benefits of a happy and healthy relationship is the feeling that you have someone who really “gets” you!
A good sexual relationship is built on emotional intimacy and closeness. In other words , if you’re hoping to improve your physical relationship, you need to first work on your emotional connection. Focus on meeting your partner’s needs and communicating your own needs in a loving , respectful way.
Practicing emotional attunement can help you stay connected even when you disagree. This means turning toward one another by showing empathy , instead of being defensive. Both partners need to talk about their feelings in terms of positive need instead of what they do not need.
During the early phase of marriage many couples barely come up for air due to the excitement of falling in love. Unfortunately this blissful state doesn't last forever. Scientists have discovered that oxytocin( a bonding hormone) released during the initial stage of infatuation causes couples to feel euphoric and turned on by physical touch. It actually works like a drug giving us immediate rewards that bind us to our lover.
Holding hands, hugs and tender touch are great ways to affirm your love for your partner. Physical affection sets the stage for sexual touch that is focused on pleasure. Sex therapist and educator Dr. Micheal Stysma recommends that you set a goal of doubling the length of time you kiss, hug and use sexual touch if you want to improve your marriage.
Sexual Attraction is hard to maintain over time. For instance , a couple can lack passion because they are unwilling to give up control and show vulnerability. As a result , they avoid sex and rarely touch each other .Most sexual concerns stem from an interpersonal Struggle in the marriage.